Taking the War Out of Our Words Ellison Sharon StrandPaperback
Taking the War Out of Our Words Ellison Sharon StrandPaperback Whether we are dealing with a rude clerk, our child saying, "That's not fair ," our spouse ignoring us, or an uncooperative co-worker,…
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Taking the War Out of Our Words Ellison Sharon StrandPaperback
Whether we are dealing with a rude clerk, our child saying, "That's not fair ," our spouse ignoring us, or an uncooperative co-worker, in our struggle to respond effectively, we often become defensive - sometimes without even realizing it. In this groundbreaking book, Sharon Ellison takes us to the root of our communication problems. Despite good intentions, we can become manipulative and controlling, even with those we love most.
Learn to: * Ask disarming questions that prompt others to drop their defenses and open up * Give direct feedback to She shows us how defensiveness functions in our lives and can lead to hurtful power struggles, outlining the six basic patterns we use: * Self-Betrayal * Avoidance * Excuses * Sabotage * Vindictiveness * Blame Using her Powerful, Non-Defensive Communication process, you can express yourself with a compelling blend of vulnerability and honesty.